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Dependence principle
Principles > Dependence principle Principle | How it works | So what?
PrincipleIf you are dependent on me, I can use this as a lever to persuade you. How it worksWhen people work together, each is more or less dependent on the other. This is the classic division of labor and the basis of our tribal and capitalist systems, with each person investing in one skill which is then shared for the common good. A common pattern found in persuasive situations is an imbalanced dependence, where person A is more dependent on person B than vice versa. Person B can use this imbalance as a lever to persuade person A. Person B's power may even be expressed as the difference between A's and B's dependence. This imbalance can lead to many forms of coercion, such as blackmail. It can also lead to forms of worship (such as pop fans fawning on their idols) and desperate attempts of the more dependent person to persuade the more powerful one. This imbalance can also lead to anger, betrayal and revenge, as the dependent person seeks to redress the balance. Desired dependenceWe start life as dependents, initially as helpless babies and later as children, learning so we can free ourselves from our mother's apron strings. But that early and comfortable existence continues to call us and many of us spend our lives trying to recreate those infant feelings of dependent safety. A symptom of this is the way that groups of people will almost always end up with one leader and many happily-dependent followers. PowerDependence is created when one person has more power than another. In particular control of knowledge and access to rare resources can lead to a queue of people lined up outside your door. So what?Build your knowledge and skills. Acquire control and other forms off power. This can also be used to free yourself from hazardous dependencies. See also |
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